Take control...

how can we avoid some things that looks inevitable? run away and hide somewhere, pretending it ever existed or just face the consequenses of our actions? whatever the options are, it is us who determine what's the right move will be. lets face it, sometimes what our heart says won't always what our head agreed on. so which one will we choose? i know for a fact, that i made some mistakes of letting some things getting out of hand when supposedly i can avoid it from happening. but there some things that we don't have the control over even how good we're in avoiding it especially when it comes to other people's emotions. maybe from our side, we can stop it from going on further but what about the other party? how can we convinced them to stop without even breaking their hearts? maybe for some, it's an easy question to answer but when you see it from my view, it'll be the hardest ones. but sooner or later, i still have to take control of the situation how costly my actions will be. risky, but i know it's worth it.....